I Love You to Death (released in theaters on April 6, 1990) introduces us to Joey Boca (Kevin Kline), a hyperactive pizzeria owner in Tacoma whose boundless energy for making pies is matched only by his relentless philandering. When his devoted wife, Rosalie, finally discovers his long string of infidelities, she doesn’t seek a divorce; instead, influenced by her traditional mother, she decides that Joey must die.
What follows is a series of increasingly absurd and botched assassination attempts, as Rosalie and her mother enlist the help of Rosalie’s lovestruck employee, Roscoe, and two perpetually stoned hitmen.
Despite being drugged, beaten, and even shot, the seemingly invincible Joey remains blissfully unaware of the plot against his life, leading to a chaotic standoff where the police and the would-be murderers collide in a whirlwind of guilt and spaghetti sauce.
Kline is magnificent as the boisterous Joey, utilizing his incredible physical comedy skills to create a character who is simultaneously exasperating and oddly charming.
Tracey Ullman brings a grounded, weary humanity to Rosalie, making her descent into homicidal intent both funny and strangely sympathetic.
Joan Plowright is a scene-stealer as the murderous mother-in-law, while River Phoenix delivers a nuanced performance as the sensitive, New Age-leaning Roscoe.
The film is further elevated by the comedic genius of William Hurt and Keanu Reeves as the world’s most incompetent hired guns.
Under the direction of Lawrence Kasdan, the ensemble creates a unique, manic energy that sustains the film’s dark premise.
Heather Graham, James Gammon, Jack Kehler, and Victoria Jackson round out the cast.
Phoebe Cates has an uncredited appearance as ‘Joey’s Girl at Disco.’

Phoebe Cates in I Love You to Death (Photo/TriStar Pictures)
Reception for I Love You to Death
I Love You to Death grossed $4 million on its opening weekend, finishing sixth at the box office.
The film would gross $16.2 million in its theatrical run.
Roger Ebert gave I Love You to Death three out of four stars in his review.
Legacy
I Love You to Death‘s legacy is rooted in its status as a cult classic that expertly navigates the difficult dark comedy genre.
Based on a bizarre true story, it is frequently cited for its daring tonal shifts and its ability to find humor in a situation that is inherently grim.
It remains a standout in Kasdan’s filmography, showcasing a departure from his more serious dramas into a world of heightened, farcical reality.
I Love You to Death’s enduring appeal lies in its exploration of extreme devotion and the messy, irrational nature of love, proving that some bonds are so strong they can survive even the most determined attempts at murder.














